Mvumi, Dar, Nairobi
I arrived in Mvumi today. As I have spent the last two weeks or so travelling, it’s nice to know that I will be in the same place for a while. Because I haven’t written for a bit there’s a lot to say, so I apologise if this post is a little less organised than previous ones.
Of my last two weeks, I spent one in Nairobi visiting some friends there. One of the first people I met with was my friend Benson, who I, and a few of my friends, have been helping with his university fees. He is doing well, and managed to get back to school last semester, but he is still struggling to earn enough for his studies. He spends his evenings working a police watchman, and his days studying at Kenyatta University. He took me there to show me the campus. It was good to see his place of study. We also went to the medical school there, which has opened only a few years back. I managed to convince the staff to give us a tour of their facilities. They had a histology lab that struggled to get specimens, but their anatomy lab was well stocked (it benefited from there being a funeral home connected to the university – the sign was strange: “Medical School and Funeral Home”, and surely mustn’t instil much confidence in their future doctors). I guess it hit me throughout the day how many sacrifices my friend was making to study. Even with the limited resources the university had to offer him. It impressed on me the value of education in his eyes. I respected it, and I hope it brings him everything that he believes it will.
I also managed to meet with a friend who was working with the microfinance organisation I spent some time with last trip. He now is doing other things, but it was good to see him. He told me of the some horrendous events that happened in December last year. Thousands of houses in the community that he lives in west Nairobi were demolished without adequately consulting the courts or the community. When they fought back, truckloads of heavily armed police where brought in, and they, literally, raped and pillaged those living there. There has been no avenue of redress for these crimes. A lawyer working for the community has been receiving death threats, the local police station refused to accept claims of assault and rape by the police, and a MP speaking on behalf of the community was briefly arrested, and his cries of injustice have fell on death ears in the parliament. All this weighs on my friend (and me) heavily. I’ve managed to document it all, and so if you have any suggestions of who we can forward this information to that’d be great. I really feel that something must be done to set right this tragic and deep injustice.
While in Nairobi I staying with our family friend’s: the Mbuka family. I first met Gideon Mbuka when I was around five years old. He worked with World Vision then, and so stayed with our family (my father also works for World Vision) when he visited Melbourne. But I really came to know their family best when I lived in Kenya during 2006. They looked after me in a tough time, after an unhappy experience at an NGO there. Last time I saw him he told me of a memory he has of me of a very young child praying earnestly for those who were starving in the famines in his country. He told me he has known ever since of my desire to help those in need. They were very good to me, and helped me to deal with some of the most difficult cultural adjustments I had to make. He was a person who I admired deeply. It was with great sorrow that I found out he had died last November in complications that followed what should have been a rather simple surgery. Given this, the idea of visiting Nairobi was largely to see his family, and to visit his retirement home where he is now permanently resting.
He has left five kids and a wife, and a lasting impact on the lives of many of the poorest in Kenya. As evidence of this impact, two thousand people attended his funeral. His son told me that the funeral had happened how he would’ve wanted. Things ran smoothly, in an ordered and timely fashion – something that Gideon had always taken care to ensure at such events. His son told me that would’ve pleased him. When we went to his retirement home, I saw the beautiful place he had built for him and his wife to spend out his days. His son told me that he was sad that he hadn’t had the chance to enjoy those days. He said he’d been too busy caring for others. It was good for me to see the place, and to see his grave. It was also good to go with his sons so that they could explain some of what the place had meant to their father. I will miss him. I remember him as an understated, caring, loving, and unique man. I will not be alone in any of these sentiments.
On my return to Dar es Salaam I had a few days off. I met a friend there and just went to the beach a lot, and movies, and too many Indian restaurants. (We were actually trying to re-find an Indian place I’d been previously, but without success). Most of the time was lovely. But I had a horrible day at Kipepeo beach, one of Dar es Salaam’s nicest beaches. We were there swimming, and had had a lovely day. But by late afternoon as we sat around waiting on a beer, I saw a crowd of people around something a little down the beach from where we were sitting. I started to walk down the beach toward the crowd to investigate. When I got a bit closer I recognised the object of interest as a body. I started to run. I reached the body and saw a boy of around 15 years of age. He wasn’t breathing. He had been swimming and had drowned. No one was doing anything but looking at him, so I started CPR. After a few moments with no response I yelled at the bystanders to call an ambulance. They responded that they didn’t know the number. I yelled at them more, but then just resumed CPR. The chest compressions where very similar to the models I had practiced on. The bellowing effect brought out foamed up seawater from his lungs. I cleared the airway and resumed. A few moments later, he vomited in my mouth, and I stopped, gagged, and then vomited myself. I glanced back expecting this event to mark him regaining consciousness. It did not. He lay motionless. Dejected, I gave up, only a few minutes after having started. But knowing that no help was coming, and that he hadn’t been readily resuscitable, I felt the exercise was futile and stopped.
I am still struggling to come to grips with this. I really wish it had occurred with someone else more experienced than me to take over, or to tell me what I had done wrong and right. But it was just me, and the crowd, on the beach. When I stopped, a man told me to walk to the beach and wash my mouth out. And my friend did her best to care for me afterward. This helped, but I really wished the first death I had experienced so close up had been easier than this.